There are so many variations of bare living that one needn't even call oneself a nudist or naturist. |

I have known folks who were nude at home a lot of the time; yet never referred to themselves as a N or N. My X never referred to herself as a nudist either; even though she participated in social nudism. Those I ‘ve known who did call themselves nudists or naturists were active societal nudists, with AANR memberships and resort/club membership. They used either term to “authenticate” their active engagement as well as commitment to the nudist philosophy.
I do not believe you need trouble with defining or labeling your nude inclinations – unless you’re actively seeking a societal nudist surroundings. But should you still feel the need to define what you do, I believe the term “household-nudist” is relevant to your situation. As far as your last question, it depends on your intent. Should you get a kick out of the notion of other people seeing your wife nude, then you certainly might be venturing into hedonistic territory. I loved my X being openly nude amongst other nudists; because her comfort with nudity was significant to http://x-officer.com .